~:: EefEcTS Of DIvoRce::~

assalamualaikum,...ollssss...

suspend tak ngan entry title saya pagi2 Jumaat ni..ye pagi2 yg penuh berkat ni...saya brkesempatan berkongsi kepedihan hati seorang ibu....not to mention her namela...

she's a colleague and a friend of mine...

she is now in terrible depression gara2 her two kids aged 5-12 were 'kidnapped' by her ex-husband...

sedihnya tgk dia...lari sana lari sana...jmpa org tu jmpa org ni..looking for her kids....

sampainya hati ex dia buat camnikn..dhla ever since she divorced her husband...that guy never turned up irregardless..sekadar menjenguk..jauh skali nk bg nafkah...alih2 trus larikan anak2 macam ni....

sampai hatikn....sedih sangat saya tengok dia...

doa saya moga she'll remain strong....

jom sama2 kita doakan sahabat saya tu..

by the way,pic above takde kena mengena ngan cerita ni..i just wanna share the pic yg caused sy kena sakat dalam our staff meeting ptang semalam..the pic was uploaded by one of my colleague kt his FB...kehkehkehkeh!!!biasala cikgu2 time2 stuck dgn mcm2 bnda PEKA la PLBS la...blablabla...mncari2 ideal nk hilangka stresskn :D

okayla...enough for now....malam taxi smpat bwk my lil fairies eat out for dinner...

layanka jela gambor dorang...everyday of my life undoubtedly becomes more meaningful....indeed....

sekadar ingin turut berkongsi....

Jika anak dibesarkan dengan celaan, dia akan belajar memaki.

Jika anak dibesarkan dengan cemuhan, dia akan belajar rendah diri.

Jika anak dibesarkan dengan permusuhan, dia akan belajar berkelahi.

Jika anak dibesarkan dengan hinaan, dia akan belajar menyesali diri.

Jika anak dibesarkan dengan dorongan, dia akan belajar percaya diri.

Jika anak dibesarkan dengan pujian, dia akan belajar menghargai.

Jika anak dibesarkan dengan rasa aman,dia akan belajar menaruh kepercayaan.

Jika anak dibesarkan dengan dukungan, dia akan belajar menyenangi diri sendiri.

Jika anak dibesarkan dengan kasih sayang dan persahabatan, dia akan belajar menemukan cinta dalam hidupnya.

Jika anak dibesarkan dengan toleransi, ia akan belajar menahan diri.

Jika anak dibesarkan dengan sebaik-baiknya perlakuan, dia akan belajar keadilan.

dikongsikan daripada PCL

till we meet again...have a great weekend ahead..

take care oolssss... :))

~:: The VinTagE Re-IssuE For Her And DeUteR BacKpaCk FoR HiM::~

assalamualaikum,oollssss....

just nak share pasal ape yg jadi petang semalam...

takde ape yg special sgt pn but it was very significant to me personally,ngehehhheh!!!

semalam mr papapapito was on his off-day...as usual he would bring the kids out ke dCurvela..

let them 'drive' their favorite cars...ride on the horsesla ape bendala....

then,bila saya finished my tuition class..saya pn akan menyusul...

since i didn't have a proper lunch yesterday so i told my other half..i nak terus pegi makan once i reached there..smpai je terus jmpa dorang kt play land yg depan mothercare tu terusla menonong ke Ayam Penyet Restaurant...

alih2..mak ooiiii....ramainya orang....all places were occupied..malas nak tunggu lama...

we ollss terus je proceeded ke eatary yg opposite ngan Ayam Penyet...

isi perut kt Subway jela....since dah overstarved kan....

anyway, not so badla.,...my 2 lil fairies pun enjoyed the sandwiches.. :))

okayla,tengah2 makan tu,....EEchaa sibuk duk habaq yg ada surprise for me kt rumah,....

eheheheh!!!of coursela excited jgk dgr..dhla dr mulut mungil diakn..dlm kpala surprise apela gaknye????

otw home sempat lagi tangkap me & my other half's feberet...

the famous...CrisPy PopiAh :D

eheheh!!!!MEMANG LA SURPRISEDDDDDDD U OLLLLLLSSSSS!!!

bila sampai rumah nampak ni on the bed....

huwaaaaaaa!!!!

SPEECHLESSSSSS!!!!!

tak sangka mr papapapito dalam diam ada niat nk surprisekn saya ngan hadiah yg sangat saya suka ni!!!!

rasa macam i don't really deserve it..bukan ape....masa bday mr papapapito dulu saya bagi ni je.....

alhamdulillahkan..tak sangka sayang jugak dia kt saya,ahahahahahah!!!

mulala nk masuk bakul angkat sendiri ni,kehkehkeh!!!

terus dengan mood yg super ceria..i brought the kids to the bathroom...shower time!!!

tengokla gambor Que kena buli ngan Eechaa,ahahahah!!!

~:: EEcHaa'S FirSt TElEkUnG SEmbAhYanG ::~

assalamualaikum,ollsss....

alhamdulillah...skarang dh bulan Syaabankn..tak sabar nak sambut Ramadhan tak lama lagi..insyaAllah..semoga terus dirahmatiNya...

u olllsss dh ganti puasa ke?

saya.....dah 3 tahun tak perlu ganti puasa,kihkihkih!!!best tak..2009 Ramadhan sy baru lepas melahirkan EEchaa..still fully breastfed her msa tu....tak didatangi bendera merah...sampai ke tahun 2010...Ramadhan tu saya peknenkan Que..pergghhhhh!!!SANGAT MENCABAR!!!alhamdulillah..berjaya harungi tanpa sehari pun trpaksa excused from fasting,..syukur sangat2...and then last year Ramadhan...again ..fully breastfeeding my laling Que...masih tak didatangi bendera merah itu..sampai ke waktu saya menaip entry ni,ehehehe!!!

kalaula dapat bertahan sampai ke Ramadhan this year....aduuhhhhh...BESTNYA!!!!!!

okayla,enough about me,ehehehe!!!

straight to d point...semalam alhamdulillah akhirnya berjaya jgk dapatkan sepasang kain telekung utk my laling princess :))

tersangatla excited buah hati pengarang jantung saya tu...:D...all this while duk taram mama pnya jekan.eheheh!!!sampai trsembam kadang2,kihkihkih!!!
mama nya plak terasa berpasir mata bila nengokkan dia bertelekung..terus sibuk ajak mama maghrib sama2..:))

tengah solat,ye...SSSHHHHHHHH!!! :P

eh,tiba2 HORAYYY!!HORAYYY!!!ahahahahha!!!!hampeh tul anak dara ku sorang ni :D

okay...time ni konon2 seriously solat,ye...

dah siap solat,mamanya gatal nk testkn..tanya ngan dia ..berapa rakaat kakak sembahyang?..

jawabnya dia " LIMA"....ahahahahahah!!!!nk terkucil mama nya gelak...

hhrrmmmmmmmmm...INDAHNYA PERASAAN MNJADI SEORANG IBU..

PENUH WARNA-WARNI....

sangat commelllll EEchaa bertelekung...beli yg besar sikit so that insyaAllah boleh pakai lama..mamanya punya pn dh tempah kt Kelantan..i tell u mmg sangat worth dgn material,sulam & upahnya..

this year sangat teringin nk custom made yg baru since last yg custom made dh agak lusuh,yg hantaran kahwin dulu,kihkihkih!!all these years beli yg dh siap..rasa tak puas plak,cehh!!!eksyenkn...

bukan apekn..ape salahnya spend skit utk keselesaan waktu bertemu Pencipta kita..insyaAllah..

oh,btw..u ollsss dh mula buat persiapan raya ke?

saya n family..alhamdulillah,yg wajib dh settled..yg extra2 tu mmg akan tetap ada tp dh tak perlu risaukn tailor ke ape..coz smua dh completed:))

over tak???mmg over ..tapi..saya mmg dari dlu suka mcm ni..tak suka last minute prepare...tambah2 dh ada anak2 ni..kenala be smart in spending money...

okayla,oolllsssss...

nak sambung tugasan sebagai pendidik anak bangsa plak,ngeheheeh!!!

till my fingers meet the keyboard again :))

~:: aRRangINg My WeeKEnD::~

assalamualaikum,ollsss...

am not in the mood of blogging today...

pikiran tengah agak tangled,kihkihkih!!!

tengah cuba2 nak arrange programs for this upcoming weekend..

kalaula boleh...sy nak bersama ngan semua orang,,..penuhi hasrat & jemputan semua orang..

apakan daya...tak boleh nak get over the time constrain..

apepun,harap saya boleh susun dengan baik..kehkehkeh!!macamla serious sangat...weekend  biasa je pon :))

my parents are coming over,Yeayyyy!!!above tu gambor my mom on her birthday last month..we had a quick brunch... so...tengah cuba sesuaikan plans dengan my parents punya plans nk attend wedding kt Putrajaya...
mr papapapito plak will be participating in a futsal carnival...

in between nak selitkan jugak these plans...

shopping with my sis...

my bestie nolie ni ajak picnic2....

my bestie mimi plak ajak pegi Aquaria...

hrmmmm.......yg penting doa saya ia tetap seBEST weekend2 yg sebelum ni....amiinnnn...

uhuhuh!!!trpaksa bt proper arrangement...blum selit lagi requests from few parents utk give extra tuitions   

for their kids....hrmmmmmmm....tgkla nti ape je yg sempat...d most important nk spend time ngan my sweethearts..  :))

next weekend plak will try to entertain my in laws ,insyaAllah:))

okay,then..take care olllsss....

~::LEmBaH kIaRa PaRk & DuRiaN AgAiN::~

assalamualaikum,ollssss...

sihat & ceria semua hendaknya...

saya tak de ape sangat nak share hari ni..just that pagi2 buta tadi ada few colleagues of mine beria2 tnya2 pasal tempat yg saya bawak anak2 semalam..coz they saw the pics that i uploaded in my FB...

jenuh jgk sy nk map2 kn,eheheh!!!

dorang mcm interested sgt sbb nampak ada ala2 anak sungai or stream to be exact...and in fact tempat tu mmg bersih and safe...it's a gud exposure for kids...my 2 lil fairies pn mmg sgt suka datang cni...

okayla..enough of talking...jom browse our pics over there :))

dh penat main,balik rumah pulun durian lagiiiiii...mr papapapito beli ngan orang2 asli yg jual kt tepi2 jalan tu...dorang onya durian ni mmg definitely gud quality ,tau....mmg finger licking godd,kehkehkehkeh!!!

above are the pics of my kids having fun kt the same park few weeks ago..:))

okay,then..take care :))

~:: OuR WeeKeNd : LunCH @ KhImAT HAdRaMouT, FuN @ TaMan TAsIK TiTiWanGsa & ClaRKs ShoEs ::~

assalamualaikum,ollssss....dh petang Ahadkn...cepatnya masa...time really flies...

okayla..just nak share bout what me and lil fairies did smalam....kt atas tu happy faces..tgh tggu our food sampai :))

jomla browse the pics of our food and drinks :))

 menikmati rasa kopi yg sebenar..............

burpppp....alhamdulillah,eheheehhe!!!

dh redup skit bawak anak2 ke Taman Tasik Titiwangsa...

tgk remote controlled car race :))

eechaa yg excited nampak horses...terjerit2...sambil pointing her fingers.."MAMA,HORSE!!!!"

as usual....actions taken at the playground :D

it's ICE CREAM TIME!!!!!

hasil tangkapan semalam...CLARKS shoes for Que and mr papapito....

mama and kakak pnya...belum ada yg berkenan...so...it's only for the thorns in d house...unfortunately, roses still have to wait :)insyaAllah...soon...

plus,takkan semua pn nk borong smalam...blum msanya nk berboros..gaji pn belum masuk lg,ngeheheh!!!

budget domestic manager yg smart,kehkehkeh!!!

okay...ollsss..nk siap2 bawak anak2 keluar plak..insyaAllah...take care :))

~:: CouSins HavE FuN At PreSinT 18 PutRAjAyA ::~

assalamualaikum,..olllssss...

hari ni sangat2 bz preparing the paper work..or to be exact all the CLERICAL WORK for report card day yg akan take place esok.....

btw...just nak share gambor2 yg expressing keseronokan my 2 lil fairies main ngan their beloved cousin, Amsyar....bwk dorang jumpa Amsyar kt Putrajaya malam tadi...dorang main sampai lebam,ahahaha!!!otw back home dh 'pengsan' dalam keter...smpai rumah pn sambung tido...Que pn awake for milk skali je,.... :))

thanking Mokcik for giving this lovely dress to Eechaa as her birthday present....nanti Eecha nak pakai time raya,eh..insyaAllah...

okay,ollllsss....nak sambung keje lagi .....

take care :))

~:: EcLipSe Of The MooN And Sun ::~

assalamualaikum,ollsssss....

i've just completed updating my Science Blog...jemput jenguk my new entry on ECLIPSE

thank you and take care :))

~:: KeLAnTAn In My EyeS ::~

assalamualaikum,ollssss...

semoga sihat2 and ceria2 hari ni semua....

pic above tu actually gambor suasana kt pasar pagi kt Machang,Kelantan sempay saya jengah waktu balik kg mr papapapito last school holiday...

dah lama terperam kt draft box...tiba2 rasa nk share skit after i saw my senior's post kt her FB wall...

here i quoted her post..

Bagaimanakah mengukur & apakah tanda aras kemajuan satu-satu negeri/ negara? hmm.. Kelate mundur 40 tahun tu... bkn 10 atau 20 tahun... tapi aku kat Kelate nie rasanya hidup lebih dari cukup... 'serba mok niko' ada... rasanya takde kurangnya hidup kami dgn anda, anda dan anda di luar Kelate.. toksoh banding la dgn pak2 & mak2 menteri & isteri2 menteri yg blh shopping juta2 tu... walau apapun hidup kami dah lebih dari cukup, alhamdulillah.

 to be frank...saya agak setuju ngan apa yg diperkatakan my senior...no..i wasn't born there..but as for me...to spend 5 years of my teen age over there..it is more than  enough to put Kelantan in a special place deep in my heart..what more..it is a place of mr papapapito's childhood...where he was born...all his upbringing memories and it makes who he is now...

and the feelings of heading back to Kelantan to visit my in laws is as same as the feelings of going back to my own hometown...

buruk dan baik nya negeri yg digelar Serambi Mekah itu..sedikit bnyak mmg saya sedia maklum...all the development which taking place mmg absolutely amazing....nak dibandingkan dengan waktu saya bersekolah kt sana dulu..it's totally different..

tapi..apa yang saya pasti masih kekal di sana ialah NILAI SILATURRAHIM masyarakatnya...

tak pernah luntur tak pernah pudar...

dan inilah sbenarnya pada saya one of the values yg tak boleh dijual beli..digolok gadai...apa lagi dipolitikkan...

ini jgkla a ntara reasons anak klantan hakikatnya jati diri mereka sukar digugat...

antara yg saya sangat tentang kelantan is of course THE FOOD...

antara yg sempat saya jamah :))

 nasi kerabu kuning

 lompat tikam

 etok..(sorry,i really have no idea what it's called in BM)

cendol pulut tapai (CPT)..collek  buah..the famous MEE CELUP TANAH MERAH 

sempat jugak belnja newly married couple...mkan ikan singgang kt Gua Musang..

 Que pnya very own style bila makan..sadis sungguh,ahahahah!!

sempat pit stop kt Benta,Pahang...makan IKAN BAKAR tok ABAH

pics captured sepanjang perjalanan yg berjam2 tu...

  bila eechaa yg eksyen nk jadi cameraman :))

 this is one of trading stuff yg sangat berbaloi2 utk dibeli di Kelantan..

alhamdulillah..sempat jgk trade in bracelets eechaa kepada yg baru and lebih kukuh,kihkihkih!!!

combined yg lama daripada pemberian tokma & mamapapa..dapatla changed to a more gorgeous one...

of course sangat berbaloi2 if compared to beli kt KL...

balik KL smula on Tuesday. ..the following day..g lawat Mokyah at UH...hantar sgala kiriman and brought her out for dinner tempt yg sangat menggamit memories..ahahaha!!!

tempat mama & papa always date msa kt UM dlu...ALI CAFE RESTAURANT..eheheheh!!!!

Gelagat Que yg dh kebosanan menunggu food yg really took a long time to be served...

okayla,ollssss...

no heart feeling,okay..i am just sharing my personal thought and view as an outsider who used to live in Kelantan..and now became HALF-KELANTANESE..coz my OTHER-HALF is a 100% Kelantanese :))

till my fingers meet the keyboard again...take care :))